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Star Children: Pirates

Astrological Stories by Juri Viktor Stork

"Thirteen pirates on a boat ..." Eerie chanting resounds from the hall, doors are slammed, and upstairs at least three dinosaurs are dancing Rock'n Roll - the children are back. Our old house with its wooden floors has gone through quite a lot over the years. But now, even the lamp on the ceiling starts to swing softly - time to go upstairs and "put a parental foot down"!

Four pirates...My daughter Rafaela is sitting on the bed of one of our neighbours' children. Sword in hand, a helmet on her head, she shouts at the top of her voice "...Hohoho, and a bottle of rum!" Three boys are glaring at me with wild eyes and decide to take me captive. I try to walk into the room without stepping on anything sharp, sticky or fragile, and invite the crew to have a snack. "What do you have?", my sweet-toothed pirate daughter wants to know. "Doughnuts", and the shouting stops immediately and makes room for a many-voiced "Mmmmh, fine."

Back in our flat, all of them are sitting quietly at the table, enjoying the sweet delicacy, when there is a soft knock at the door. Moses, the smallest member of the "crew" wants to join in, and also asks for his doughnut. Five children covered in icing sugar ...

My wife Annina and I, our 8-year-old son Leo, and our 7-year-old daughter Rafaela have lived in this over 200-year-old house for a few years now. Rolf and Vivian live on the ground floor with their 4-year-old son Moses, the second floor belongs to Barbara with her two boys Wilhelm and Michael, 8 and 5 years old. Three families: five adults, five children, three cats - truly thirteen pirates ...! The house demands a lot from its inhabitants as far as openness and the ability to keep one's private space are concerned: we listen to each other cleaning our teeth, put up with a groaning ceiling when dinosaurs start dancing, and enrich each other with our latest musical discoveries. As parents we are happy to discover that other couples also have rows, that not only our children have achieved mastery in emotional blackmail, and that even our pedagocially skilled housemate can be prone to completely unpedagocial shouting occasionally.

But for the children, this house really is like a huge ship which sometimes floats on a calm sea, sometimes crosses stormy waters, and now and again takes off for a flight into new dimensions. They try themselves out as pirates, witches, sewerage workers, and confectioners. Nothing is solid, everything is in flux, even their relationships with one another.

As an astrologer and curious person I like to look behind the veil of appearances - with the necessary respect. A horoscope reading for an adult is directed at a self-confident person who wants to understand themselves better. Therefore, I do not hesitate to confront my clients with difficult aspects of their personalities. This is the only way growth is possible. A child's horoscope reading, however, talks ABOUT the child to the parents or guardians. Here, a lot of sensitivity is required, not only with the more difficult aspects of the personality. What would you do with a sentence like: "Your child will be a very special person..."? How would you get it out of your head?

Let's be honest - as parents, we have expectations as well as fears for our children, and most of the time, these have more to do with our own experiences than with our children and their world ... . A good reading of a child's horoscope addresses you as a mother or father, and intends to show the whole potential of the child's character. In this way, you can take back your own projections. Children are not unformed or incomplete adults but always complete in themselves, everything is there right from the start. Remember?

So, what can I tell you about my daughter Rafaela, seven years old, with a Pisces Sun? Pisceans are quiet and gentle - is this what you think? Yes, and pirates knit socks ...! Rafaela, with her Scorpio Ascendant, is a passionate Pisces. She loves to eat fish, she loves fishes, especially dolphins, she swims like a fish, and her favourite play is to go to sea as a pirate, occasionally dive into deep waters to retrieve valuable pearls, fight a terrible sea monster or find a mysterious treasure that she shares with her cronies, and to continue their cruise towards new oceans. The new ocean emerges in her glass of water at the evening meal, and a bit of cheese takes a bath ... She fights passionately with her brother for the best place on mother's lap, and she falls passionately into bed and the deep sea of sleep.

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© Juri Viktor Stork / Astrodienst AG 2004
Translated by Karin Hoffmann
* All names in the story have been changed for reasons of confidentiality.
 
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Star Children: Rubbish

Astrological Stories by Juri Viktor Stork

There's a large garden at the back of our old house. It has a vegetable patch the size of a tennis court, a playground, a big campfire site, a side building for storing wood, tools, bikes and children's toys. Surrounded by trees, hedges, and an old wall, our garden is a good habitat for salamanders, hedgehogs, birds and other creatures great and small. It could be idyllic.

Rubbish!I am a Sagittarian (fire) with a Gemini Ascendant (air), and my only planets in earth are Uranus and Pluto in Virgo. A garden to me is something wonderful - beautiful flowers, fresh vegetables, juicy fruit. And they all grow by themselves, just like that. Nature is really doing a great job. It provides us with space for meditating or lying in the sun, and it provokes wonderful thoughts. Sometimes, I even feel like cutting the grass. When I'm sitting on the garden bench, I can feel the charm and mystery that our garden radiates.

If it wasn't for - you know what I mean: If it wasn't for the apple core in the hammock, the scattered clothes-pegs all over the garden, the campfire ash in the bag where normally the clothes-pegs are, roller-blades lying around inviting someone to trip over and break a leg. The excavation in the vegetable patch ("... we were just trying to find a treasure ...") is not really to our liking either. And why is the whole house painted with chalk? Who has scattered old bread crumbs in the garage? Who has shovelled the sand from the sand box onto the path? Who has taken away the fence around the compost heap? And who on earth has cut the raspberry trellis with the secateurs?

Why can't our garden just be idyllic? The parents in the house should have a talk and see, how we can convey to our children that nature wants to be treated with a little bit more respect. Nature can be so exciting. appleMy wife sows, plants, weeds, tells me about crop rotation, organic fertilisers, and other esoteric methods of gardening. Being an Aries with a Virgo Ascendant, she has a talent for looking after overgrown beds with a pioneering spirit, for patiently pulling out weeds, planting systematically and with fervour, and even reaping what she has sown. Fascinating! Our housemates Vivian and Rolf are also often seen in the garden. They do interesting experiments with natural selection processes: can cauliflower survive, if the weeds haven't been pulled out for months? Even our neighbour Hannes has had a go at gardening. Heroically, he planted sweetcorn, leeks, lettuces and cress, and then went for a three-month holiday. All this gives Annina a chance to activate her pioneering spirit every spring and free her overgrown bed from the accumulated weeds. Everyone in the house can fulfil their potential.

Our children fulfil their potential too. Our son Leo, for example, was born with the Sun in Virgo, an earth sign with a natural leaning towards everything that grows and bears fruit. Virgo selects: this is useful, that isn't. In that way, Virgos are really concerned about their environment. Leo, with a Scorpio Ascendant, is also a born existentialist: All or nothing! He takes everything into his hands to assess whether he needs it. If he does, he takes it with him and puts it somewhere safe along the way, if he doesn't, he throws it away. He can never go missing, all we need to do is follow the trace of rubbish.

Pirates!Wilhelm, the 9-year-old son of our neighbour Barbara, is a Taurean, a really practical child. It's just that, with Neptune on the Descendant, life can be quite spooky sometimes. But being a Taurus, he has found a very earthy strategy to deal with this: if he shouts really loudly and throws things around all over the place, it might make an impression on the creatures from the invisible world. On his venture, he strides heroically through the garden and grasps a long stick which he uses to knock down unripe apples from the tree. He bets Leo that he can throw the apples at least as far as the wall of the house... Leo takes a few too, eats the nicest one, and throws the others. Earth children!

I'm sitting on the garden bench with apples flying through the air, longing for my idyll. As a fire and air type, why do I have to deal with these earthy things? I suggest to the kids: Let's make a campfire and have a barbecue. They think it's a great idea. Together we sit around the fire watching the flames. I think I can leave them for a minute and get the sausages in the house. I'll quickly check my e-mail and read the guestbook too.

Meanwhile, the children are shoveling the embers of the fire into the plastic bucket and ... this can't be true, but you can't ...!!!

The Child's Horoscope by Liz Greene.


© Juri Viktor Stork / Astrodienst AG 2004
Translated by Karin Hoffmann

* All names in the story have been changed for reasons of confidentiality.

 
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Star Children: Wheels

Astrological Stories by Juri Viktor Stork

AutomobileSometimes I sit in front of our old house, imagining how people might have lived here in the old days. How they grew their vegetables, cut wood in the forest or followed some sort of craft or trade. No light switches, no hoovers, no showers, no aircraft noise, no telephone calls from some marketing enterprise during meal times. And no cars. No droning engine noise, no hooting, no rat-run traffic, no maniac who races up our street at 100 mph at eleven o'clock at night, no ladies in four-wheel drives with bull bars at face level, no suicidal actions under a lowering swing barrier. No such dangers for playing children. Car drivers behave autistically, completely unaware of what is going on around them (yes, I drive a car myself).

Moses, the son of our neighbours Vivian and Rolf, is a great car lover. He's hardly four, but already has an impressive collection of 76 toy cars, three Buicks, 16 trucks, one Matchbox race course with a loop-the-loop, a figure-of-eight race course with two remote-controlled Formula-one rocket and a radio-controlled VW Beetle with a droning engine and a signal-horn. Vivian assured me that his first word wasn't "Mama" but "car". If I believed in re-incarnation, I'd be certain that Moses would have been a car dealer or racing driver in his previous life. But as an astrologer I suspect he is one of the rare cases of a "Mercedes" Ascendant.

toy carOur son Leo is completely different. He also has a few toy cars, but they are confined to a miserable existence in some bedroom drawer. Driving is boring. His toy tractor was used mainly as a stationary power shovel in the sandbox. For a long time, he wouldn't ride his bike - he found two wheels too unstable. He wasn't bothered that his same-age or even younger friends had been riding their bikes for ages. He had no such ambition whatsoever. With his Sun-Saturn opposition, he is careful at expanding his territory.

Rafaela, one and a half years younger than Leo, and whenever possible faster than her brother, didn't trust the two wheels either. Tricycle, scooter, inline skates, skis - no problem. But riding a bike was a challenge she avoided. Although we practised a lot last autumn, the two of them put their bikes back into the garage. I admit that I would have liked them to succeed. Their failures are also mine. And even though I know that development can't be forced, I found it hard to leave it at that.

Tiger bikeAstrologically, personal development as well as technological progress belong to the domains of Uranus, Aquarius and the eleventh house. In my horoscope, I have Saturn in Aquarius on the midheaven. Saturn is the brake, the structuring force, "hard reality". I'm always worried that things don't go the way they should, I try to have all developments under control. A real astrologer ...

Ah, you think my children and I may have some themes in common? Well, let's see: Leo's Sun is in the eleventh house ("doing things one's own way", "following one's own path") ... Rafaela's Mars is in the eleventh ("living one's own strength") and her Jupiter and Uranus in Aquarius ("sudden developments") ... Yes, that somehow rings a bell. I remember my red scooter, and the really bad fall on the gravel road when the frame couldn't take the weight of a ten-year-old boy at full speed anymore... Actually, when did I learn to ride a bike?

bikeRafaela told us at the breakfast table on Easter Monday that she'd had a dream: "I got on my bike and rode away, just like that!" "Why don't you try it", I encouraged her. She went and got her bright yellow bicycle, got on - and rode away. Just like that. Of course, this put Leo under enormous pressure. He also got his bike - and to his own surprise and delight, it worked. At first still a bit clumsy and shaky, both of them soon rode as if they had been born on a bike.

By the way, the astrological interpretation of the automobile is another story: the engine with its controlled force of the fire is definitely uranian. Getting from here to there expresses the mercurial principle, while the traffic rules and regulations are linked to Saturn. I suppose, putting down the accelerator when overtaking and hooting at an annoying cyclist is pretty Martian, the choice of design and make of the car Venusian. The petrol consumption reminds me of the excessive side of Jupiter, the regular traffic breakdowns of Neptune. And the destructive consequences of car traffic for our planet are quite Plutonian.

SchwangerBut when I'm in my car by myself, enjoying the landscape and listening to music, the car appears to me like the epitome of lunar energy: as if I was travelling in a womb, I feel strong, safe and comfortable. Actually, this might be the key to the fascination cars have on people, and to the uniquely autistic attitude which seizes all drivers once they're in their car: "Mama" is not far away at all. Is she, Moses?

The Child's Horoscope by Liz Greene


© Juri Viktor Stork / Astrodienst AG 2004
Translated by Karin Hoffmann
* All names have been changed for reasons of confidentiality.
 
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Star Children: Hubris

Astrological Stories by Juri Viktor Stork

The other night at the evening meal, our 7-year-old daughter Rafaela asked: "Where are we when we are not?" LotosChewing intensely on a piece of salami, I tried to find a comprehensible answer. My wife Annina, who had reproached me recently for always having an answer to everything, looked at me sternly and said: "This is one of those very important questions that many people ask themselves." I grumbled: "And those who have found out won't be able to tell you." Of course, my wife is right. "Children need the question, not the answer," she said forcefully, "the question itself will lead them to the answer." Yes of course, I know that from my own experience. I love questions, they lead me directly to the answers, and sometimes I'm really surprised about the ones I find. Would you like to ask me something?

Some time ago, a client of mine asked me to work out a good birth time for her baby. She had to have a cesarian, and if that was unavoidable, she wanted at least to choose a time that was in harmony with the other family members. I hadn't done anything like this before, and was really interested what the outcome would be. So, I did the charts for the whole familiy and checked the constellations around the prognosticated date of birth. I really wanted to find a great horoscope. HeadAnd - believe it or not - the best chart to fit into the family system was - the prognosticated date. The only thing I had to do now, was to inform my client about the inherent harmony of Mother Nature. I was annoyed about myself and my own thoughtlessness. Of course, I know that children don't just come into existence, but are conceived, grow in the womb for about 40 weeks, and are born whenever the time is right. We as human beings cannot influence which chart the child is going to choose for itself. But I had the fixed idea that I could find a perfect birth time! Isn't that called hubris, or in plain language "arrogance" or "presumptuousness"? Life seems to organise itself well enough without my interference, probably even better.

Yesterday I was looking for a particular text in our Astrodienst library, and while rummaging around, I came across one of the many astrological "cook books". Chance would have it that the book opened exactly at the page about "Planets in Sagittarius". In my own birth chart the Sun, Moon and Mercury are placed in that sign, and I don't want to leave you in doubt about what the author writes (about me?):

Mercury in Sagittarius
Is daily on the phone to God. Receives messages from all kinds of other sources regularly. Doesn't talk but preaches. Always says one word too many. Is never short of a clever question and always convinced of his own opinion. Only thinks intoxicating thoughts and only ones he believes to be his own...

(Markus Jehle, "When the Moon is in the seventh house..."
only in German: "Wenn der Mond im siebten Hause steht...")

Ouch. That hit. I just hope that my wife Annina will never see this story. I will spare you - and myself - the text for Sun and Moon in Sagittarius. So, what am I meant to do now, answer or be silent? And what would then become of my Star Children stories?

Ah, I just remembered something. I really want to know what this Markus Jehle writes about Annina's Mercury:

Mercury in Pisces
Communicates mainly telepathically. Looses herself in her boundless imagination and can't find her way back anymore. Can't distinguish her own thoughts from those of others, and calls this intuition... Perceives preferably dreams and inner images. Talks in order to create confusion.

Thank you, Markus Jehle. I have found myself again. Where are we when we are not? In case you want to know the answer, don't hesitate to ask me. Please.

Know thyself

The Child's Horoscope by Liz Greene


© Juri Viktor Stork / Astrodienst AG 2004
Translated by Karin Hoffmann
* All names have been changed for reasons of confidentiality.
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